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Spiritual Disorders

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Core beliefs are the foundation of our belief system, and our health and emotional wellbeing are affected when our core beliefs are conflicted. They are the enduring fundamental self-values and understandings formed by childhood experiences, innate disposition and cultural influences that establish our relationship with the world. These understandings are not correct or inaccurate; they are implicit fundamental beliefs about our self, which may or may not be factual. They are our interpretations and evaluations of our experiences and our learning, subject to influence. For example, we might have a rooted sense of unlovability or incompetence. A core belief rooted in defectiveness could be, I’m a failure, and everybody knows I’m a failure; abandonment, I’ll never find anyone; powerlessness, I’m weak; unlovability, I don’t matter (Ross, 2019).

Using abandonment as an example, the baby/toddler’s felt experience of being abandoned establishes the pattern. The event of abandonment could be perceptually insignificant: a parent interrupting quality time to answer the phone could trigger in the baby/child a core belief rooted in abandonment. Core beliefs influence the development of intermediate beliefs―attitudes, rules, and assumptions that affect one’s overall perspective, which in turn influences thought and behavior (Wong, Moulds, & Rapee, 2013).

Of the three early contributors to your belief system, innate disposition creates the most debate. The words combined imply that humans are born with certain inherent qualities of mind and character. Buddhism claims it’s the consequence of reincarnation, Augustine coined the term ‘original sin,’ and Plato credited the undying soul passing certain truths and qualities from one body to the next. This paper supports the rational explanation of many developmental psychologists: beliefs are learned, beginning with the experiences of the baby and the symbolic awareness of the toddler. It is emotional-based learning contributing to core beliefs that are difficult to influence or change, unlike cognizant beliefs which can be modified or supplanted by logic and reasoning (Piaget, 1971).  

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Cumulative evidence that a toxic childhood leads to emotional complications has been well-established, as has the recognition of childhood and adolescent exploitation is a primary causal factor in lifetime emotional instability. The onset of most mental illness generally happens to the abused adolescent. For example, of the ten personality disorders in the latest edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5), early-onset is characteristic of each except for narcissistic personality disorder where adolescent infection is less common. Schizoid and schizotypal personality disorders onset during adolescence 69% of the time, and avoidant personality disorder onsets at any age (ADAA, 2019; Baron, Gruen, Asnis, & Kane, 1983; Bressert, 2019; DPD, 2007). Child/adolescent abuse through detachment, exploitation, and or abandonment can impel the subject to experience chronic depression, anxiety, and feelings of helplessness, hopelessness and unworthiness; repetitive patterns of shallow relationships; a general disregard or apathy for the feelings, rights, and welfare of others; an inability to trust; and enhanced aggressiveness (Steele, 1995).  Add to these, feelings of insecurity, the loss of control over life, and a resistance to new experiences. Childhood abuse and neglect “increases the risk for developing depression” (Haddad & Haddad, 2015, p.2) and factors prominently in mental illness (Mullen, 2019)

If the child is criticized, overly controlled, or not given the opportunity to assert itself, it begins to feel insecure in its ability to survive, and may then become overly dependent on others, develop low self-esteem, and experience a sense of shame or doubt in its own abilities (Vanderheiden & Mayer 2017, p.15).

Environmental or traumatic events also factor in early-onset (Mayoclinic, 2017; NAMI, 2019b). Certain psychiatric disorders are heritable, and a close family member affected by mental illness is a known risk factor. It’s believed bipolar disorder, major depression, and schizophrenia are inheritable, suggesting potential genetic roots.            

A spiritual disorder is a personality disorder or other psychophysiological impairment that doesn’t rise to the level of physiological disease or psychopathy. Psychophysiological is a fun word. It means that your malfunction could be due to anything that ever happened to you and how you were affected by it. Some would cite emotional distress as the cause; another might attribute it to your physical condition, and a third to an event in your childhood. The reality is they’re all involved because they’re always in collaboration. Generally, a spiritual disorder happens to you during times of emotional crisis or when life offers more than you can handle. It comes in various forms. You may be depressed for long periods, have anxiety attacks, be unmotivated or apathetic. You may be self-abusing with food, alcohol, or pharmaceuticals. You may feel incompetent or worthless.

Maslow’s (1954) hierarchy of needs is a theory of natural human development that lends itself to an approach that provides us with a better understanding of the cyclical trajectory of these different malfunctions. In Maslowian theory, the orderly flow of social development requires satisfying specific fundamental human needs. The adolescent experiencing detachment, exploitation, or neglect, is disenabled from satisfying his or herphysiological and safety needs, as well as the need to belong and experience love, which makes the satisfaction of the next level of development―the need for esteem―even more problematic. Child psychologist B.F. Steele maintained “abuse” includes any events that interfere with the optimal physical, cognitive, emotional, and social development of the child. The term is subdivided into physical, sexual, and emotional abuse and various forms of neglect, all of which can occur alone or in combination. (Steele 1995, 19).

Esteem is both internal (self-worth) and external recognition of our value; value is the accumulation of our positive self-qualities―self -esteem, -compassion, -love, -regard, -respect, -value and other intrinsic virtuous qualities. The disruption of natural human development obstructs the satisfaction of inherent positive self-qualities.  In a nutshell, not only is the adolescent/child infected by mental illness because of abuse, but the disruption deprived them of the satisfaction of fundamental needs.

 

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Maslow’s five-stage model was expanded in in the 1960s and 1970s adding cognitive, aesthetic and transcendence stages. Each is beyond (and subject to, in theory) the need to satisfy esteem; they do not affect our model.

The future psychological complication infects the abused child/adolescent then lays dormant until its symptoms manifest in the adult. The abuse affects the physiological and safety needs, the sense of belonging, and the experience of loving and being loved. The symptoms of the illness and the developmental deficiencies form a symbiotic relationship within the process. Not only is the adolescent/child infected with a potential mental illness because of abuse, but satisfying the need for esteem is obstructed, providing limited access to his or her positive self-qualities. Recognizing the likelihood that symptoms of a future mental illness are gestating in the abused adolescent/child opens new avenues for early medical intervention.

The points we’re making here are that you are not responsible for events that happened in your childhood. You’re only held accountable if you don’t do anything about it now.

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