Recovery from Social Anxiety and Related Conditions
Robert F Mullen. PhD
Director/ReChanneling
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The distinction between social anxiety and social anxiety disorder is in severity. We are not all affected by the same symptoms or relentlessness. The characteristics and traits are equivalent. These conditions originate homogeneously, their trajectories differentiated by environment, experience, and the diversity of human thought and behavior. While comorbidities dramatically benefit, the recovery methods identified are for social anxiety and social anxiety disorder, and reference to one includes the other.
Personas
We all wear a kind of mask or persona for different situations that hide our insecure feelings and flaws, presenting a polished, controlled face to specific conditions. In psychology, the term “persona” refers to the social guise that we present to the world. In essence, our persona is a compromise between our current psychological state and societal expectations, such as being confident, approachable, or professional.
Just as actors assume different roles, we all have our portfolio of personas that we unveil depending on the situation. If effective, our personas make us more relatable and accepted in social settings.
Purpose of a Persona
For those experiencing social anxiety, a compelling persona is designed to make a positive impression while concealing the nature of our condition. Developing personas as coping mechanisms helps us prepare for and adapt to multiple exposure situations. For instance, if we have a fear of public speaking, we can present a confident and articulate persona to our audience, thereby reducing our fears and anxiety.
Jung’s Archetype
Carl Jung claimed the persona as one of his primary archetypes – inherited patterns of identity that significantly influence human behavior. These archetypes are deeply ingrained in our psyche and influence how we perceive and interact with the world.
According to Jung, developing a viable social persona is a vital part of adapting to and preparing for adult life in the external social world, which is a powerful coping mechanism for those of us experiencing social anxiety.
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Stanislavski’s Method
Personas have been part of culture since the pre-Roman days. The word itself is Latin and refers to masks worn by the Etruscan mimes, circa 600 B.C.E. Personas were adopted by Konstantin Stanislavski, who lived around the same time as Jung, who developed them as a method for actors to inhabit their roles.
Adaptability
Our personas are not fixed, but rather adapt to the context in which we find ourselves. They establish our body language and determine how we carry ourselves, the timbre of our voice, attitude, and dress. This adaptability empowers us to navigate different situations with confidence and control, making us feel more in charge of our social interactions.
Situations
A situation, in the context of social anxiety, is the set of circumstances – the facts, conditions, and incidents affecting us at a particular time in a specific place.
Feared Situations are situations that provoke our fears and anxieties. These are individually specific. It might be a social event, the office, the family dinner, or the barbershop. Anticipated and recurring situations are those situations that we know in advance provoke our fears and anxieties, while unexpected situations are intrusive and unanticipated.
Personas as a Coping Mechanism
In recovery, we deliberately formulate personas as coping mechanisms utilized to alleviate the stress of a situation. Personas constructively mask our social anxiety.
It is a coping mechanism designed to make an impression, e.g., one of confidence or insouciance, while concealing the physical and emotional symptoms of our condition. It can be used as an adaptive affirmation of our composure or self-command.
Moreover, personas serve as a coping distraction, reducing the influx of fear and anxiety-provoking hormones. A well-crafted persona can reveal our inherent strengths, which social anxiety may have obscured, thereby helping us reclaim and rebuild our self-esteem.
An Extension of the Self
While some may identify the persona as separate or differentiated from the authentic self, our persona is not inauthentic but a divergent and healthy aspect of the genuine self. Adopting a healthy persona does not conceal our true nature but presents another facet of our personality. Our persona is not a departure from our true self, but an extension of it.
The Social Psychology of Dress
Persona is a component of the Social Psychology of Dress, which is a field concerned with how our dress appearance affects our behavior and that of others toward us. It examines how our outward appearance, encompassing our clothing and grooming choices, affects our self-perception and the perception of others. Think about how you behave in various environments (work, home, social gatherings). What traits do you showcase?
Our outward appearance mirrors our internal vision of who we want to present ourselves as. Persona is more than an image or affectation. It is the attitude and performance that reflect our internal vision.
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Self-Complexity Theory
Based on the self-complexity theory, individuals create or embellish their identity to navigate life more effectively. Creating personas is a powerful tool that allows us to harness our diverse range of personalities, putting us in the driver’s seat of our social interactions.
The self-complexity theory posits that an individual with multiple and unique self-aspects will have greater and healthier self-complexity than one who has only a few self-aspects. For our purposes, we will define self-complexities as personas.
Personas as Aspects of our Identity
Multiple personas are not an indicator of identity loss. Personas are not other selves distinct from who we are, but different aspects of our identity. A persona is not entirely who we are; it’s a part of us that we choose to show.
To analogize, all the clothes in our wardrobe belong to us, but we choose an outfit for a specific occasion to appeal to our sense of self. The same pattern of thought-driven choice establishes our persona.
Positive Impact of Personas
The direct link between our behavior and our emotions is undeniable. Research has shown that even attempting a smile can alter our mood. Moreover, it signals our brain to release, among other hormones, GABA for relaxation, dopamine for motivation, endorphins to boost self-esteem, and serotonin for a sense of well-being. Just imagine the positive impact a well-crafted persona can have on our self-esteem.
The ‘Act As If’ Technique
Revealing personas is not just about managing social anxiety but about enhancing our overall well-being. As William James famously wrote, “If you want a quality, act as if you already have it.” In psychology, the ‘Act As If Technique’ is designed to inspire us to adopt the mindset and behaviors of the person we choose to present during a social situation. This approach can lead to a more positive and hopeful outlook on life, motivating and inspiring us to strive for a better self.
In recovery, we consciously determine and project positive outcomes to our efforts. Which helps build self-confidence and modify our behavior to support the end result.
Projected Positive Outcome
A projected positive outcome is an optimistic outcome scenario. We determine the probability of success and project our outcome accordingly. What can we reasonably achieve? What would satisfy our efforts? And what would leave us with a sense of pride and accomplishment? Their reasonableness guarantees success, avoiding disappointment and self-recrimination.
Self-Fulfilling Prophecies
Our personas reflect the version of ourselves we strive to become. Acting as if something will occur is a self-fulfilling prophecy. It’s a form of the ‘fake it till you make it’ technique, where we promote positive aspects of ourselves to enhance our persona. To fake it is to pretend to be capable and confident; to make it means our persona effectively supports our goals.
We develop our persona as a coping mechanism for a specific situation. For example, we may adopt the persona of a gregarious and approachable character to compensate for our fear of attending a social event.
Our persona is an extension of ourselves, influenced by the demands of the situation. We design it to instill self-confidence while presenting that same confidence to others. This process helps us alleviate fear and anxiety, boosting our positivity in social interactions.
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INDIVIDUAL RECOVERY. The symptoms of social anxiety make it challenging for some to participate in a collective workshop. Dr. Mullen works one-on-one with a select group of individuals uneasy in a group setting. ReChanneling offers scholarships to accommodate the costs. What is missed in group activities is provided in our monthly, no-cost Graduate Recovery Group. In this supportive community, graduates interact with others who have completed the program. Contact ‘rmullenphd@gmail.com’.
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